Happiness Isn't a 'Some Day' Goal
Stop being a happiness delayer! As humans we can all fall victim to the ‘some day’ scenario for different aspects of our life. We might envisage that ‘some day’ we’ll learn another language, start eating healthier, get a job that we enjoy, go on an overseas holiday or, ultimately, be happy. We may think we’ll feel happy when we live in a bigger house, get a better job, have more money or find our lifelong partner. Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you’re not happy now then you won’t be happy then either. And who’s stopping you from being happy now? There are some people who seem to be blessed with the happy gene and appear to be able to enjoy life no matter what hurdles are placed in front of them. I would love to be one of those people but, unfortunately, that’s not my natural default. I’m more of a “I’ll be happy once I’ve got all of these jobs completed” or “once I’ve resolved this difficult problem” type of person. I’m a happiness delayer! And I hav